The excitement of marriage is beyond measure. planning to spend the rest of your life with the ones you love, excitement of whom you expect to attend, the flowers, wedding costumes, cake, the beautifully decorated halls.....i could go on and on but the list is endless.
Then following suit, organizing the space you both will call a home.
I consulted with a childhood friend of mine and his wife-to-be recently ;i was meeting her for the first time so i didnt want to be too foward with suggestions. As much as possible, i wanted her to feel very relevant in the decision making process of the decorating aspect so i let her decisions sort of guide my ideas. i realised they didnt have a budget even though they werent ready to spend a fortune designing; niether were they sure what colour scheme to adapt to.
Anyway, we left the place not particularly concluding on anything besides some wall effects i suggested for some of the wall. In decorating, the more indecisive you are, the more money you tend to waste. I was a victim of this mistake when i was decorating my own space because i had to battle with indecision regarding accent pieces which interestingly cost more that the main furniture. planning a space for newly or about to weds can be a handfull because some couples have very diverse interests in colours, space planning and even decor accent pieces. I have some advice handles thought out for couples or designers that find themselves in these situations;
Then following suit, organizing the space you both will call a home.
I consulted with a childhood friend of mine and his wife-to-be recently ;i was meeting her for the first time so i didnt want to be too foward with suggestions. As much as possible, i wanted her to feel very relevant in the decision making process of the decorating aspect so i let her decisions sort of guide my ideas. i realised they didnt have a budget even though they werent ready to spend a fortune designing; niether were they sure what colour scheme to adapt to.
Anyway, we left the place not particularly concluding on anything besides some wall effects i suggested for some of the wall. In decorating, the more indecisive you are, the more money you tend to waste. I was a victim of this mistake when i was decorating my own space because i had to battle with indecision regarding accent pieces which interestingly cost more that the main furniture. planning a space for newly or about to weds can be a handfull because some couples have very diverse interests in colours, space planning and even decor accent pieces. I have some advice handles thought out for couples or designers that find themselves in these situations;
- Have a budget: this helps with easy planning. you know what furniture to 'eye' and which to ignore. predict how much you want to spend for each piece if you can. so u dont end up buying a very lovely pricey settee and a shabby, cheap looking coffee table just because you cant afford a nice one.
- Seek expert opinion: consulting with a designer can save you a lot of stress. it will save u money, time and energy. Designers know very good workmen who'll take up the domestic aspect.They will also prevent you from making costly decisions that might affect your expenses. They also will help you 'agree' on conflicting subjects by providing alternate solutions.
- Select an inspiration piece:Select an inspiration piece for each room that you both absolutely love. For example, if you both want to use a large, black leather sectional in your living room, that will be your focal point in the room. Your inspiration piece can be a favorite photo of the two of you from your honeymoon, the vase you bought on your first vacation together or a souvenir from your first date. The piece can be meaningful and sentimental or practical and functional, as long as you both agree on it. Build your theme, color scheme and decorating style from that piece for each room. For example, a blown-up photo of you on the beach together can serve as the base for a beach-themed room with a sandy beige, creamy white, pink and sky blue color scheme. This room will likely feel comfortable to both of you, even if you prefer traditional decor and her taste is more contemporary.
- Use any furniture you can from your previous homes to save money, or purchase large pieces that you both love, such as sofas, dining sets and a bed. Consider your current and future needs when purchasing new furniture, such as if you plan on moving into a larger home within the next few years or your current budget. Prioritize the pieces that matter most, such as your newlywed bed. Repurpose old furniture by painting it, staining it or reupholstering it to make it belong to both of you if new furniture isn't practical right now.
- Create a luxurious, romantic and inviting space :. Area rugs, curtains or drapes, bedding and throw pillows can dress up any room with any furniture to get the desired result. Use 100% cotton bed sheets or a down comforter on your newlywed bed to create an intimate space to cuddle up with each other every day.
- Accessorize your home with interesting, fun or quirky items that show off your personalities and relationship. Hang photos of the two of you throughout your home to surround yourselves with the memories and reasons you got married, as well as to create a space that reflects who you are as individuals and as a couple. Include vases, fragrances,flowers and candles for a romantic touch.
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